Really, Miley Cyrus? You think sex ends at 40? You told Matt Lauer that at 55, he was "definitely not sexual"?
On what planet? Oh, right, the youth planet!
Miley, you could teach me plenty about fame, music, handling bad publicity, and, I suppose, twerking (if I thought that I needed it to feel sexy, which I don't, and if my 69-year-old back would handle it, which it wouldn't).
My day job is writing and speaking about senior sex, which you think doesn't exist. Here are just a few facts about it:
On what planet? Oh, right, the youth planet!
Miley, you could teach me plenty about fame, music, handling bad publicity, and, I suppose, twerking (if I thought that I needed it to feel sexy, which I don't, and if my 69-year-old back would handle it, which it wouldn't).
But I could teach you a thing or two about sex.
My day job is writing and speaking about senior sex, which you think doesn't exist. Here are just a few facts about it:
- Sex can be better after 40, 50, and 60 than it ever was in our 20s. Then, we as young women were driven by hormones, anxious about our partners liking us or finding us sexy enough, and not terribly good at communicating what we needed to reach orgasm. Our partners, also hormone-driven, rushed to their own finish, often leaving us behind. Often, our fear of pregnancy outweighed our enjoyment.
- Now, we're no longer propelled by our hormones -- we're having sex for other reasons: sexual pleasure and release, intimacy, joy, bonding, emotional well-being, and about a gazillion other good reasons. We know how to slow down and enjoy the sensations and the feelings.
- Is sex the same at 50 or 70 as it was when we were your age? No. We do have challenges. We also have the knowledge (or know where to find it, such as in my award-winning book, Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud about Senior Sex) to overcome those challenges, and the communications skills to deal with them.
If you'd like to discuss this or battle me in a televised face-off (with Matt Lauer moderating), please have your people contact my people. I'd be delighted.
Please slow down and hear this:
If you want your sexual exuberance to match mine three decades after age 40, start listening to your elders -- at least the ones who are winking at each other after hearing your statement about sex ending at 40!
Miley, I'll be happy to send you a copy of Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty to further your education (and, I hope, delight you), if you send me your mailing address.
Brian Alexander, a top sex and science journalist, interviewed me yesterday about this. Please read his smart and sassy article here. "You're going to laugh about what Miley Cyrus just said," he said when he called me. Yes, I laughed, I commented, and it got me so revved up that I had to expand my views here a day later. Thank you, Brian.
tutorial permainan tangkas
BalasHapuskelebihan bermain tangkas
Daftar Tangkas
Download Tangkas 5pk
Download Tangkas 7pk
Restoran Ini Sumbangkan Sisa Makanan untuk Tunawisma
Salim Said: Sejak Trump Jadi Presiden, AS Jadi Kacau
Industri Seks Berkembang di Kamp Pengungsi Rohingya
Agen Judi Online
BalasHapusAgen Judi Sbobet
Agen Judi Ibcbet
Agen Judi Casino Online
Agen Judi Tangkas
Prediksi Bola Akurat
Hasil Pertandingan Arsenal vs Norwich City: Skor 2-1
Sanchez Sanjung Neymar-nya Arsenal
Lihat Liverpool, Neville Jadi Teringat Arsenal
Agen Judi Online
BalasHapusAgen Judi Sbobet
Agen Judi Ibcbet
Agen Judi Casino Online
Agen Judi Tangkas
Prediksi Bola Akurat
Mbappe Tolak Tawaran Barcelona
Skuat Madrid dan Barca Bukan Lagi yang Termahal
Valencia Tak Merasa Jadi Pesaing Madrid dan Barca
Agen Judi Online
BalasHapusAgen Judi Sbobet
Agen Judi Ibcbet
Agen Judi Casino Online
Agen Judi Tangkas
Prediksi Bola Akurat
Barca Kembali Usik Coutinho, Liverpool Marah
Aleix Vidal Dikabarkan Menuju Roma
Ini Alasan Neymar Menyesal Pindah ke PSG
988poker Terfavorit
Agen Judi Online
BalasHapusAgen Judi Sbobet
Agen Judi Ibcbet
Agen Judi Casino Online
Agen Judi Tangkas
Prediksi Bola Akurat
Arsenal Segera Daratkan Nabil Fekir ke Emirates
Jelang Derby Lawan Arsenal, Dembele Mengaku Optimis
Cedera, Giroud Meragukan untuk Derby London Utara
Agen Judi Online
BalasHapusAgen Judi Sbobet
Agen Judi Ibcbet
Agen Judi Casino Online
Agen Judi Tangkas
Prediksi Bola Akurat
Eks Wasit EPL Ini Minta Spurs Tak Lagi Keluhkan Gol Mustafi
Dibanding Klub-klub Rivalnya di EPL, Arsenal Diklaim Tak Alami Kemajuan
Arsenal Resmi Rekrut Eks Scout Dortmund
Agen Judi Online
BalasHapusAgen Judi Sbobet
Agen Judi Ibcbet
Agen Judi Casino Online
Agen Judi Tangkas
Prediksi Bola Akurat
Costa: Juve vs Barca Akan Jadi Pertandingan Hebat
Dembele Kian Dekati Asa Comeback di Clasico
Klopp Tak Tertarik Latih Barcelona